The value of behind the scenes on social mediaDo you let people ‘in’ on social media? Behind the scenes and related content can make a huge difference to your social media. Not only is it a limitless source of unique content gold, but it’s also a great way to connect with your fans and followers in a really relatable way.

Do you share your behind the scenes?

When I was working on my social media course for riders, behind the scenes was always going to be a key part.

Why? Because it’s THE place to create unique content. And more than that, you don’t need to stage it or plan it – it just happens while you’re going on with your life. Which means that behind the scenes is the most perfect way to implement Gary Vaynerchuk’s amazing mantra of ‘document, don’t create’.

I’m amazed at how many people don’t use this really simple idea, especially when many struggle to create content for their social media. But when these things happen you need to dig a tiny bit and find out why, don’t you? And the answer was really interesting…

Because people don’t think they’re that interesting… and that their followers won’t care.

But they’re wrong…

Behind the scenes shows the real you, makes you more relatable, and allows you to share so much.

There’s a massive drive on social media towards authenticity – I mean people have been talking about being authentic for years – but luckily REAL authenticity seems to be on the increase. And if behind the scenes isn’t authentic, I’m not sure what is. As a rider, this might be getting ready for a show. Being SO hot after a training session that you’re the colour of a strawberry and look like you’ve been under the hosepipe. It’s your dog ‘helping’ you do the feeds by running off with feed buckets. It’s the music you sing along to at the top of your lungs when you’re on the way to a show. It’s the nerves before cross country. It’s how you remember a dressage test. It’s the stuff that no one sees.

For brands, it might be all of these too (if you’re horsey and that’s a key part of your brand), but it could also be getting ready for an event and trying to tetris everything into the trailer? Building the stand, designing new products, going to shows, packing orders, speaking to customers, finding inspiration when you’re walking the dog, getting excited about a new delivery, opening a parcel containing all your new packaging, your excitement when you see yourself in print. This is behind the scenes.

What if people don’t care?

What if they don’t? Your true fans – the ones who will support you and want to be part of your journey will lap it up. And I mean LAP IT UP. And the others? They might. They might not. It doesn’t actually matter because you’re not worried about the others. You’re serving your true fans. The people who will enhance and enrich your life as much as you enhance and enrich theirs. Don’t worry about everyone. You can’t please everyone all the time and neither should you try. The ones who are firmly on your side will love this new insight into your life/day/world.

Social Supercharge: Riders

how i do it all - most requested podcast

When I asked for podcast subject suggestions a few weeks ago, this one came up a bit. ‘How do you do it all?’ ‘How do you fit everything in?’ and similar questions. The thing is, I do do a LOT, but everyone does, and while it might all look like plain sailing on the outside, be in no doubt that I am wiggling my legs, peddling hard, and getting as frustrated as the rest of you. So here’s my take on how to do it all. And some little hacks I’ve picked up along the way.

How to do it all…

In this week’s episode of the Small & Supercharged Podcast I talk about how to ‘do it all’ – but also please be aware that as I type this I am cringing. Because while I know I do a lot, I don’t feel that I have this nailed. At all. I mean, I feel like I’m spinning plates and running around like a headless chicken most of the times and it can feel chaotic from where I’m sitting. But apparently this was an area that you wanted to hear about… so here we go…

  • So first up – I don’t do it all. Because I work for myself the work/life line is basically blurred so I have help with childcare (the children go to nursery and I have help from my mother-in-law and husband with them) and that affords me time to crack on with some focused work.
  • I talk about when the children were just born and the level of help I had then. People regularly labelled me as superwoman and I am not at all. I just have help that gives me time to crack on with the big stuff and the services/products/events that you see.
  • Delegation. I am nowhere near as good at delegation as I should be but I do delegate aspects of my life out to other people. When you work for yourself, the work/life line becomes blurred, so while I know having a cleaner for the house is definitely a life based delegation, it does free up time I can spend better on my business. And I’m rubbish at cleaning. It brings me no real joy on an ongoing basis.
  • Slow cooking, batch cooking and meal planning. Every flipping evening we would argue about what to have for dinner. Seriously. I’d always be madly trying to finish something and want to ‘just’ finish this or that before trying to work out what to cook for dinner. Now we meal plan, batch cook and use the slow cooker. I swear it’s a game changer.
  • Online shopping. Game changer. I do go into town about once a month to go to Aldi and stock up, but each week we get an online delivery that means I don’t have to waste time shopping with two small children.
  • Podcasts, audio books are great ways to learn new things, be inspired and stay motivated. And it’s a great time hack as I can listen when I’m walking or in the car so I can learn when I’m doing something else.
  • Exercise. If you don’t look after yourself, you won’t be able to do it all at all. In addition to walking just for the sake of it, I do also take quite a lot of phone calls when I walk, so rather than sitting still taking a call in the office I try and walk and chat.
  • Stop comparing. On social, lots of people show their highlight reels, so if you’re comparing yourself to this and that makes you feel like you’re failing – stop it. You don’t know the backstory or how much the person you’re idolising/whose content is making you feel like crap is struggling. If that’s the case – just delete/block/unfollow. It’s better.
  • Go easy on yourself. It will all go to hell in a hanging basket some days – that’s life. Don’t beat yourself up – you just have to go again tomorrow when you can.

No one has it all figured out!

And just to summarise – no one has this all figured out – we’re all just doing the very best we can with what we have. Go get ’em!

Five social media posts all equestrians can use this week

Social Supercharge: Riders the social media course for ridersFor someone who writes press releases for brands without too much stress of worry, you’d be amazed at the gremlins that cropped up when I decided to write the one below, all about my social media course for riders, Social Supercharge: Riders!

While social media and content marketing are definitely key marketing strategies for me, I really do still believe in the power for the press release. Not just for in print publications (actually, nowadays, less and less for this), but because through sending out a press release to a list of contacts you’ve nurtured, you’re spreading the word. You never know where these press releases can lead you. And I’ve seen time and again the amazing and long reaching benefits they have. So who was I to hide the fact that I’m really flipping proud of my social media course for riders – Social Supercharge: Riders. And also, I’m such an advocate of doing the work and not just preaching at people (mainly because I have no time for people who talk a good game but do very little else!). I do do the work for my clients every single day. But when it comes to my own stuff? That’s an area I’m working on…so here goes! This is the actual press release I sent out about the course. I should say press releases should be written in the third person – I haven’t gone weird on you…

Social Supercharge: Riders digital course launches to help riders improve their social media and promote themselves better

Renowned social media expert, Rhea Freeman, has downloaded her digital knowledge into an online course which will help riders improve their social media and promote themselves better to owners, sponsors and potential business partnerships.

In it Rhea talks riders through a range of content ideas before looking at how to capture this content, and how to ‘supercharge’ their social media growth further. In addition, it also looks at the opportunities that growing an engaged social media following can hold.

“I’ve worked with riders through the brands I work with for years, and latterly on a one to one basis with riders too,” said Rhea. “Social media is an essential part of any brand’s marketing, whether they’re a rider or a small business, but knowing what to create, how to get it out there… and how to stop it taking over your life, can be challenging. This digital course pulls all this together into one, and also has a Facebook group to offer course participants further support. I know how valuable this peer support can be as my 1700+ member Small & Supercharged Facebook group (which was created to support small equestrian and country businesses and brands) is such a supportive place. The group creates genuine business and life value for people, and I’m confident this will happen for riders too.”

“The course is completely digital and can be completed anywhere there’s internet connection. I understand the time demands on riders, so I’ve made the course as user friendly as possible and also something people can work through at their own pace. The response from participants so far has been amazing. As a launch offer, the first 20 spaces are being offered at an introductory rate of £99, and that will be increasing after these spaces have been filled.”

Testimonials have already started coming in and the first cohort members are already seeing results.

“I really look forward to sitting down with it and, to be honest, I don’t want it to end,” said Sarah Elebert of Sarah Elebert Eventing. “Within days of implementing just a few of the ideas, I had two brands that I already use and love wanting to work with me. Who knows where that could go. I am over the moon.”

“I have an idea for my first Instagram TV inspired by the course,” said Gemma Gilbert, also known as Gem Eventing. “The course has really helped with giving me a boost to do more things that I wouldn’t have done before as I wouldn’t have been as confident to try.”

 

And that’s that! I obviously included all my contact details (because they’re kind of key!), but you’re already here so you know that – but here’s the link to the course, and you can email me here if you have any questions! Enjoy!

Five social media posts all equestrians can use this week

anxiety and confidence with chloe brotheridge

If you follow me on social media, you’ll have no doubt seen me mention Chloe Brotheridge, or at least her books The Anxiety Solution and Brave New Girl– all about anxiety and confidence respectively. Chloe is a hypnotherapist and coach at www.calmer-you.com and author of The Anxiety Solution: a Quieter Mind, a Calmer You and ‘Brave New Girl’, which came out in May 2019.

As so many people experience both these issues (as in issues with anxiety and confidence) I was thrilled to get the opportunity to catch up with Chloe, to chat about anxiety, confidence and everything else in between. If you’ve ever had an issue with anxiety or confidence, this podcast is for you. I hope you love it.

Anxiety and confidence

Chloe starts by telling us how she got into this line of work, which was largely because she was really struggling with anxiety herself. It was a quote that turned things around for her (she says that’s cheesy but true… and I just love it!) and from then she went on a real journey to control her anxiety and then help others.

Anxious or anxiety?

Being anxious can be very normal, but anxiety might not be, as Chloe discusses. She details how some feelings of being anxious are completely normal, but others aren’t. From how anxiety can be very physical as well as mental, to panic attacks and the repercussions of things like social anxiety and how this can grow. We also talk about the importance of going to a doctor if you’re worried about your anxiety and how it’s absolutely nothing to be afraid of. She also explains how treating it earlier can lessen the severity of it all.

Not just a mental issue

Interestingly, anxiety has a whole load of physical symptoms, as Chloe explains. Chloe talks about some of the physical issues that people with anxiety may experience, why they might experience them, and how our body processes such things. We talk about fight or flight, the feelings that can rise up, and how it can actually feel like you’re dying when you’re experiencing extreme anxiety.

A modern day condition?

Is anxiety a modern day condition? Chloe talks about how we evolved to live in close tribes and how we used to move around a lot which would burn off the adrenaline. We also talk about loneliness and the impact this can have, but also how now we have connections with so many people, take in world events, and how this can have a big impact on our anxiety too.

Social media and anxiety

Social media does get a bad rap, but Chloe talks about how it can actually be quite positive and, also, how it’s not social media’s fault. The ‘issue’ is often linked to advertising companies who can make us feel bad about ourselves (so we buy the ‘fix’) and the people we chose to follow. If you follow positive, inspiring accounts vs accounts that make you feel negative or lacking, it can be really positive.

That voice in your head (we all have them)

Do you have that little voice in your head that likes to make you feel even worse? Yeah – we all do – in fact it’s a subject that Chloe talks about with people at her first coaching session with them. Chloe discusses how we need to be aware of how we’re talking to ourselves and think if that’s the way that we would speak to our friends. And if it isn’t, it might be something we need to look at to help us manage our thoughts and feelings.

Now let’s talk about confidence…

Chloe’s second book, Brave New Girl, is all about confidence. And in case you hadn’t guessed, they’re very much related and often linked by their roots in self esteem issues and not being good enough.

Confidence and having issues with confidence can appear in ways you might not see. So things such as not being able to say no, imposter syndrome and so much else can be linked to confidence.

We often think of confidence being fixed but it isn’t. We can feel confident and then something changes, like we have children, a work change/redundancy or something else can impact it. There are, of course, things you can do (as Chloe explains), but I found it really interesting that people have peaks and troughs… and also that some people we think are really confident aren’t always.

Is a lack of confidence a female thing?

Not exclusively, but as Chloe explains, there are lots of reasons why women can experience more confidence issues than men. This might be because of the evolution of a woman’s place in the workspace, but also how we raise little girls and what we link their value to.

Can you build your confidence?

Oh yes – Chloe details some great ways that you can help to build your confidence in small steps, through looking at what you’ve done. She also talks about how you can push yourself in smalls ways to help grow your confidence, being kind to yourself and so much more.

To find out more about Chloe Brotheridge…

Chloe’s website 

Free anxiety toolkit www.calmeryou.com/free

Chloe Brotheridge on Instagram

Chloe’s podcast 

Link to NHS mood quiz

As someone who helps businesses and individuals promote themselves for a living, you might think it’s odd that I’m sharing that I’m not the best at self promotion. I mean, as an overall brand I think I’m pretty good, but the detail? The things I can actually do to help you and what you do? The big ask? I’m not always that good at that. Why? Because I’m in the really fortunate position that a lot of my clients have found out about me through word of mouth or my content, and I’m only one person so I’m usually fully booked. But it’s all changing now… and here’s why.

Why do we find self promotion so difficult?

I hear a lot of incredible stories. People who have created products from nothing, or have endured horrific journeys to get them to where they are today, or had that genius spark that changed the game for them. I see new products from people where I can see the time, energy and love that’s gone into the design and creation. I see the same with service providers too. I see all of this. And then I see nothing. Because for the vast majority of people, putting themselves out there is REALLY scary.

What if someone doesn’t like what we’ve done?

What if someone PUBLICLY doesn’t like what we’re doing?

What if there’s an error somewhere?

What if it’s not good enough?

What if I’m an idiot?

Any of those sound familiar? When we switch into self promotion mode on a larger scale, ALL these thoughts run through our head. Oh, and the exposure. Oh God the exposure. Because if what we’ve done isn’t good enough – if it’s rubbish – and we’ve told people about it and they call us out then by God we’re exposed, aren’t we? We’ll look like idiots. The years of credibility that we’ve built up will be blown to pieces and we may never be able to show our faces in public again. Am I right?!

Introducing the gremlin

Of course I’m not… but that’s what the little voice that chats away, trying to keep us safe, would have us believe. My ‘gremlin’ is risk adverse. And what he sees as a risk and what is actually a risk are quite different. Crossing a road with your eyes closed and earphones in – I’m with him, I could well die and that’s a big risk. But telling someone about something I’ve created for people? The consequences aren’t on the same level.

When I launched my very first digital course Social Supercharge: Riders, these fears were there. It was ready to go. It had been tested. The feedback on said test was great. So I just quietly launched it, told maybe six people, and then that was that for day one. If those six people didn’t immediately visit the checkout it must be crap – right? Well no – as it seems – because since then I’ve had a word with myself, I’ve actually told people about it, people have paid for it and are loving it… and the feedback has been beyond my wildest dreams. The response has given me a buzz like nothing I’ve had for quite a while, but it has pushed every comfort zone. The content – the thing I was teaching – was never going to be a worry because I talk about it every day. So the core of the course- the thing I was selling – I KNEW was good. But what if I’d messed it up and people just hated it?!

What if?

Well I was very wrong. They love it. But the thing is, if I didn’t get a grip of my little gremlin, I would have never told anyone about the course. It would have sat there. I would have put it on my website. I wouldn’t have actively promoted it. It wouldn’t have done that well. But instead I’ve had the ability to help people – really help people – and make a big difference to their world – and who am I do that? If I let my own ego and fear of looking a bit of an idiot get in the way of true change? Really helping people? That upsets the gremlin more.

So next time you’re thinking ‘who am I to shout about what I’m doing?’, I want you to ask yourself who are you not to? Because none of us gain by playing small – and not just us – none of the people we could help, inspire and change the lives of do either.

Am I right?

how to start at zero on social mediaDo you want to start a new social media account/page or group on social media but you’re a bit worried about starting? Because you have to start at zero? Well this podcast is for you. It’s all about how to start at zero on social media. To be honest, I think this podcast is a good one to listen to if you’re feeling frustrated with your growth on social media. Because if we focus a whole lot less on the number and a whole lot more on the person and people, we’re going to do a whole lot better.

How to start at zero on social media

Starting a new account on social media can be scary, because when you decided to publish it, you’ll be starting at zero. And what does that say about you? And how are you going to get the one hundred let alone thousands. And what if you can’t? And what if you just started too late? JUST STOP.

Yes, if you’re an early adopter of a platform, you’re going to have an easier time growing your account because, generally, when platforms are young, the algorithm tends to support faster and easier growth. Historically this has been the case. So if you’re joining the party after the early adopters and the platform is already popular, you are likely to have a more challenging time growing. But that’s OK. You can still make huge gains by getting on board and getting yourself in the conversation.

The power of one

I know, I know, I sound like a broken record on this, but this works here with bells on. You don’t need thousands of people to make a difference to our account or to your world. You need one to start. Then another one. So if you focus on attracting each individual person at a time, you’re much more likely to feel motivated to try. Because thinking you need to attract thousands of people feels overwhelming. Needing to attract one person? Not so much.

Tips to for how to start at zero on social media

This podcast is packed with tips for how to start at zero on social media. How you can grow a following that actually cares about what you have to say, how you can engage with your target market really easily, how you can start featuring on people’s feeds… and the key… everyone starts at zero. And when you realise and accept that, you see it as the start of your journey rather than being ‘behind’.

 

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I want to talk about real authenticityAhhh… this is one of those hot subjects, right? Authenticity on social media. It’s a word that so many people use, but in the quest to compete and bag those ‘likes’, have we lost what authentic really is? When you can filter out your wrinkles, reduce the size of your waist in a couple of clicks and magically smooth your cellulite on… have we lost what it means? And does it matter than real authenticity and a kind of faux version have got a bit confused? And are we being pushed towards being not quite as authentic as we would like because we won’t get the likes otherwise?

I want to talk about REAL authenticity

Now, before we get started, I want to be straight with you. I don’t filter any of my images and I don’t do any form of harsh editing, airbrushing, slimming, anything. I very rarely do anything beyond cropping an image to fit the space. If I have an image that’s a tad dark or too bright or the colours my phone has picked up aren’t an accurate reflection of what I saw, I might tweak those levels – but when I say rarely, I’d say 99% of the time I post as the images appear on my phone without any editing.

I go on Instagram Stories most days, I produce videos each week, and I plaster my unfiltered and unmade up face on social media very frequently. Am I comfortable with these things? Not especially. I have a ‘sheep wrinkle’ between my eyes (I call it this because you know when you see a ram with wrinkles up his nose? Yeah, that), I have other lines, bags and wrinkles that I would rather not have, and I could pick out all the flaws on my face until the cows come home.

But I don’t filter my images. Because when I meet you in real life, I want you to know it’s me.

Why I stay unfiltered

In my personal experience (and I might be alone here), if I meet someone who heavily filters and edits out every perceived flaw on social, I almost feel like they’re different people when we get face to face, because they don’t look the same. I don’t care what you look like, but I kind of expect you to look the same whenever I see you – or largely the same. We all have days when our sheep wrinkle is more pronounced (!), but you know what I mean. If you have laughter lines in real life but your face is smoother than a polished surface on Instagram, it’ll take me a while to process the fact that what I’ve seen online isn’t actually who you really are. And then I’ll start thinking about how deep that runs- this is all done in a split second.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t use filters. If you want to use filters, do it. I appreciate that appearances are such a huge part of our identity and I completely get that in a time of airbrushing, filtering, celebrities defying aging and everything else, there is a lot of pressure. My point here is that showing the ‘real’ you is the most authentic thing you can do. And if you want to be authentic on your social media, please think about it. If you don’t and you want to show a highly aspirational, curated and edited side of your world, you do that. But please don’t say it’s something it isn’t. Own it. Please. By owning it you’re actually being a whole heap more authentic. Do you know what I mean?

But being authentic is not just about your face, it’s what you say

On social media, being authentic isn’t just about how you look. It’s about far more than that. I get that. But in my opinion, it kind of starts there. Because if you’re wearing a highly filtered mask, where does that stop?

Now, being authentic doesn’t mean that I want to know your deepest darkest secrets – we all have things that we don’t necessarily want to share, and that’s absolutely fine. I am NOT telling you to share anything you’re uncomfortable about and don’t want to share, OK? You don’t have to share your whole life on social media.

But authenticity, to me, is about telling the truth. It’s about the filter one applies to the language we share in our captions. If you’ve had a crap day (and you want to share it), do. If you’ve had an amazing day (and you want to share it), do. But don’t have a crap day and tell the world it’s all sunshine and lollipops (or visa versa), either share the truth, don’t share anything, or share a tip or something else you want to talk about. You don’t have to share your crap days, but I believe you have a duty to your fans and followers not to lie to them. Because if you’re fibbing… well… what are you achieving? If people like what you’re saying and doing, your fans and followers are liking things that aren’t connected to the real you. And if they don’t, IT’S STILL NOT YOU.

So maybe authenticity and filters are connected?

The definition of authentic contains the words genuine and real, not false or copied. And if you’re ‘filtering’ your words to make them more happy/sad/deep/WHATEVER than you really feel, and you’re filtering the heck out of your images to make them more shiny/wrinkle free/smooth than you actually are… are you being authentic and true to yourself?

And a final thought…

There was a post on Jenna Kutcher’s Instagram feed on 8th July of her standing in an animal print bikini. The image is taken from the side, she’s wearing sunglasses and has her hair in a half up/half down top knot. I’m being this descriptive as I WANT you to go and look at it. She looks amazing. Swipe right to left and it’s still Jenna but thinner. Actually, she’s removed and adjusted quite a few features that make her more…I’m not sure what actually. Attractive? Nope. Conventional? Nope. Real? Nope. Adjusted? Yes. Would I have known she’d edited it if I hadn’t seen the two next to each other (and in the next swipe she shows you what she did)? Maybe not. But if I were to meet Jenna, would I? Maybe? And if she’s not being authentic with her appearance… see what I mean?

What about editing?

Maybe this is a grey area, right? Because is a filter just an edit? Well I don’t think it is actually. Careful editing, that helps show the subjects in a way that’s more like their true likeness (as in, where the skin tone is right, and light issues have been adjusted, and the image has been edited to make it more true) I think it positive. I really do. Because light, shadow and so much else can do very strange things to an image. But highly edited images (unless for some artistic reason) don’t do it for me. Because I don’t think they’re a true reflection of what’s going on and they are a long way from authentic.

Talk to me about real authenticity – what does it mean to you? Come on over to my Instagram and leave a comment!

why riders need social media - the transcriptWhy riders need social media – Transcript

Rhea Freeman: (00:10)
Well. Hello and welcome to a solo show with me today. And it’s aimed at all you riders. Actually, it’s not just aimed at riders. It’s also a really good one for brands who are interested in working with riders. But it’s all about why riders need to have social media and why they need to take it seriously and also why they need their own website. I’m going to talk about the kind of essential digital marketing platforms for a rider in today’s world. Now, before I go too much further, I want to say that this podcast is, you know, they say sponsored by, I’m not sure if when it’s your own product it’s technically sponsored because I’m not paying me to talk about this because that would just be weird. But, um, it’s inverted commas sponsored by my new digital course called social supercharge riders, easy for me to say! Which is all about helping horse riders to promote themselves better on social media to attract what they want from it.

Rhea Freeman: (01:13)
So whether that’s brand ambassadorship, sponsorships or even owners, supporters, and more of the above. So if you want more information about that, it’ll be in the show notes. And it’s also on my website, under the work with me tab, it’s called social supercharge riders. Um, so let’s carry on. So the first thing I’d say is my go-to is, well all riders need social media. All riders need to have some form of website. And that to me is an absolute essential if, if they want to gain any form of support. So by this, I mean if they want to have their horse and they want to ride their horse and they want to enjoy their horse and that’s all they want to do, they don’t need to do any of this. If they literally just want to enjoy their horse, ride their horse, compete their horse, whatever.

Rhea Freeman: (02:09)
You don’t need any of this because you live your life how you like. However, if you want to gain any kind of brand new ambassadorships, to work with brands, collaborate, have opportunities presented to you, you need to be on these platforms. So if you, I mean the thing is you might be in the first camp, you just want to document your journey and that’s completely fine too. But if you want to attract anything, like I’ve mentioned, social media is a big thing for you. And to be honest, a website as well. So I’m going to just touch on the website to start with. Obviously social media is, is much more my thing. Um, but even if you just have a really basic WordPress free website that is just a hub where people can find out more about you, who sponsors are who work with you, your horses, and anything that you sell or promote.

Rhea Freeman: (03:07)
So whether you give lessons, whether you ride other people’s horses, whether you sell horses, it doesn’t have to be something that you have to put hours and hours and hours and hours of work into each week or month. It can be something in a perfect world, you’d be doing blogs, you’d be doing regular updates, you’d be doing lots of things like that. But I’m saying if you don’t have the bandwidth, I love that phrase, for that at this time, don’t think can’t be doing with a website, then I would still urge you to have your own little space on the internet. I did a podcast last week actually with Ray from Worcester web studio. I would urge you to go and have a listen to that. He talks about three ways you can get websites, things like WordPress and also ways you can have websites in your own domain name. So for example, mine is Rhea Freeman PR.

Rhea Freeman: (03:55)
I own that and my website is, he works with that, but the free ones are usually something like, would be Rhea Freeman, PR dot. WordPress dot, whatever. So if you have your own domain name, you can pay a little bit more and have it hosted. And he also talks about some really affordable hosting options on some of the big platforms. So you can either have it free and have dot WordPress or dot, whatever. I keep talking about WordPress, that’s just because I use WordPress, but I know of people who use other platforms very effectively. But even if you just have that with links to your social media, I would really urge you to consider that because it’s just good. It’s your own shop window that you’ve got control over. So I’d urge you to have that. But now I’m going to move on to the ways that you promote yourself because if your site is your shop window, you want to drive people to said shop window and you want to tell them about your shop window.

Rhea Freeman: (04:58)
And the great thing with social media is it allows us to get involved in these conversations to reach out to people as much as them reaching out to us. And that’s what’s really important. So you need it if you are looking to attract any kind of following because nowadays all the brands I work with and advise and speak to, and I’ll be honest, there’s a lot of them because obviously I have my clients and I have my masterminders and I have the small and supercharged group. I watch carefully and I work with a lot of people, social media is such a big deal. Social allows people to connect in ways they never have before and if you want a brand to invest in you on any level, you’ve got to be out there promoting yourself and doing something about it. And the easiest way to do that, if it’s through social media, as many different channels available, and I’d suggest you don’t have to be on all of them because that’s like a full time job, but pick a couple, pick a couple that are going to work with the kind of content you want to create, what you want to do.

Rhea Freeman: (06:05)
And you might find that actually you can pick more than two. Again, it depends on what you want to do. So if you’re really into vlogging, if you love video, if you love taking videos, you love editing them, then YouTube is a really obvious place to go. And obviously YouTube itself works as a standalone platform because it’s basically a search engine, but you can also use that video content and put it onto Facebook in a native way. You can share the link on the feed,, but you could share the link onto Twitter and Instagram. You could have it as an IGTV episode. You could just repurpose that same content. And/or you could have a link in the bio to your YouTube channel, but you’re still using it to promote what you’re doing. So you could have a main platform and then you promote it through the others, promote your main content.

Rhea Freeman: (06:53)
Although I think don’t underestimate the value of being native because that’s quite a big deal, but don’t think, Oh my God, I need to be on Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, um, all the places, Pinterest, all the places because you’ll just burn yourself out. Maybe pick two, pick one to start with, let’s be honest and really focus on that. But a couple is quite good. And to be honest, most of the people that I work with, it’s going to be Instagram and Facebook because they’re the biggest platforms. They’re the most used platforms. I mean, Facebook has over 2 billion monthly active users. Instagram has got over a billion monthly active users. And a lot of people use the platform daily so you don’t have to kill yourself doing this, but you can use these platforms to really help you. It can be to document your journey.

Rhea Freeman: (07:49)
Again, if you want to create content like videos that you heavily edit together and they are things of beauty, you go for it and they’re beautiful and they’re great to watch and if you enjoy it, please do it. Please do. Don’t think, Oh, I mustn’t do it, but you can just, you can gain huge ground by just documenting what you do with your horses, the products you use, the people you see, the places you go, the things you’re working on. You can make massive gains by just sharing this with people. One of the things I discuss in the course actually is behind the scenes and the value of it and I have to say this is just such an underused area. If I was advising a business, I always say look behind the scenes what goes on behind the scenes. Talk about your members of staff, talk about the products that you are making, the packaging, the way you send things out, the workshop, the shop floor, the members of your team, all the stuff that is unique to you.

Rhea Freeman: (08:52)
Because how cool is that? We can all see the perfectly polished photos. We can all see the, um, I know you can all see the trade stands. That’s an amazing behind the scenes thing as well. But you know, we can all see these perfectly polished photographs but what we can’t all see is what goes into making the stuff that’s in these photographs. And that is something incredible. Flip that to riders. And the same applies when you say that you came seventh at a show. I could probably find that out. I could probably, if you are competing, if you’re eventing, I could definitely find out. Um, and it wouldn’t take much. You take a few minutes. I’m not saying don’t share your results at all, but share more than the results. What’s going on behind that result? Are you pleased with the result? Could your horse have done better?

Rhea Freeman: (09:43)
Could you have done better? Did you make an error? Um, is it a personal best for you? Did you think the course was tricky? Did you think the arena had a scary flower box? Did your horse spook all the way in and then was an angel? Tell us what is going on when, this is just competition I’m talking about now. But tell us the emotions, the feelings, the thoughts connected with competing. Don’t just tell us the end result because we can find that out. We can find the end result out pretty easily. Getting over excited now. And that’s just sort of show and that’s not actually just at a show. That’s just the results of the show. You can talk about the process that you go through. So the preparation to get there, if you’re eventing, walking, actually eventing or showjumping, walking the course.

Rhea Freeman: (10:31)
Um, if you’re doing dressage, kind of your arena familiarisation and how you feel that’s going to play out and how the arenas are laid out and you know all the things that are going through your mind. That’s brilliant behind the scenes stuff. That’s really great insight into what makes you tick and actually these are the things that are likely to attract brands to you because you’re not just saying, yeah, came seventh that was great. Yeah, it came first. It was great. You’ll saying, Oh my goodness, I can’t believe we won. It’s such a brilliant way to finish the season. We’d been working so hard on it. Looking back last year, these were the feelings I had. Can’t believe we’ve gone up level, really pleased we stayed at the level, whatever the stuff that we don’t see from your first rosette that you could also share it.

Rhea Freeman: (11:24)
As I said, the preparation, whether that’s before you go or at the event, and this is just the competitions. Think about the stuff behind the scenes day to day, what you feed your horse, the products you use to make it shiny. All these things are really useful for people and not just useful for your fans or followers because it’s amazing content. If your horse has got the most stunning quarter marks in the County, in the world, let’s say the world, let’s go big, let’s get big or go home, the most stunning quarter marks and you’ve got some really nifty little trick that shows that makes them stay or makes them pop a bit more and you share that. How great is that for your fans and followers? Because really your fans and followers are following you to keep with your journey, to find out about your horse because they’ve got an interest in you as a person and if you start sharing these little golden nuggets along the way, it’s really good.

Rhea Freeman: (12:20)
People try them, they take pictures, they tag you when they try it and you start to spread and grow your following. Now, if you are a brand looking at a rider and you’ve got a rider who is saying that they love the food that their horse goes on because the horse maybe had issues with getting a bit fizzy before or struggled to gain weight or struggled to maintain weight or just got too fat and actually this feed is working really, really well and you’re being completely open and honest. And even if you’re paying for the product, let’s say you’ll see you have no sponsorships or ambassadors, but if you as a brand keep seeing somebody pop up and wave flags for you and rave about you. If you’re then thinking, so you know that your brand, you’re a brand. With your listening hat on, you want somebody who is going to be out there flag-waving for you, promoting what you do, talking about the benefits of feeding your products and you’ve got someone who’s paying to feed it and is still raving about it.

Rhea Freeman: (13:19)
Wouldn’t you go for that person over somebody who has never mentioned it to anyone? I would because to me that person is already on board and it might mean with feed that you get a gift vouchers for example. It might not mean like a full sponsorship but it might mean that you get a thank you and you getting acknowledged or you get shared on their feed. Isn’t that really positive and you’re already doing it. You’re already doing it, you’re just documenting it and that is what you’re sharing with people. If you have got some amazing brushing boots that are just the absolute bees’ knees and you bought them for a very specific reason because your horse brushes and normally they just shred straight through the strike pads and you are saying watch, I’ve had these for like a month now and they’re doing really, really well.

Rhea Freeman: (14:07)
Look how good they are. And you take some really nice pictures and you talk about that through your social and you tag the brand. If the brand has got any idea on social, they’ll be watching that and they’ll be aware of it and there’ll be seeing what you’re doing. And again, even if that’s the case of them dropping you a message and saying, Oh, we love your pictures. Do you mind if we share them? Brilliant way to start any kind of relationship and the best way to start in my opinion, but who knows what that could lead to. I’m not saying you should only do these things for the end goal because if you’ve got your fans and followers who are looking at what you’re doing and you’ve got a product that’s genuinely, genuinely changed the game for you, tell them. Why wouldn’t you tell them?

Rhea Freeman: (14:49)
The only reason you wouldn’t tell them, I guess is if you are sponsored by a competitor, but then in that case you need to really think about whether or not that sponsor aligns with you. But if you’ve got a product that you love that has saved you money, that has changed something for you that has changed something for your horse, why wouldn’t you share that? And you can share the journey you can to say to people, actually, I bought these and more than I normally would spend, but I’m getting through a cheap variation of this every couple of weeks and I thought let’s try something more expensive and hope it lasts and it has. I suppose the other side of this is when stuff doesn’t work and stuff isn’t good and I have to say, I would always be quite careful with oversharing. This, I’m not saying lie never lie, that’s not good.

Rhea Freeman: (15:37)
We are all about authenticity and being genuine, but you’d be much better if you have a product that you tried and didn’t like or you bought and didn’t like. You’d be much, much better speaking even if it’s in a DM, but definitely offline, not offline, online but not in public. So email, DM, phone call, let’s go mad. It’s go the old dog and bone and explaining that to the brand because that’s useful feedback for them. But that useful feedback for them might just be specific to you. So it might be that your whole, this thing about brushing boots, it might be that your horse has got an action that will just shred them. Actually there’s a much better product out there for you in their range because of the way your horse moves. So maybe having a, I don’t know, it’s like some plastic strike pad for example, that they can just shred.

Rhea Freeman: (16:29)
Maybe you need something integrated. So through giving the feedback you might learn something, you might learn a better product for you or it might be that you’ve got a faulty product or it might be that the product is rubbish and you won’t buy it again, but you’ve, that is not necessarily useful for you to give that feedback on unless you have been saying these are the best thing since sliced bread. You do need to be genuine, authentic and honest. But if you are looking to help support small businesses to help build your own brand, you don’t do that by being foul about things. Because I think we can all say that we’ve had products that haven’t worked out how we expected and sometimes it might be that we’ve got a faulty batch and I’m sure that was a product not all that long ago I bought from a, I’m trying to think, just trying to think.

Rhea Freeman: (17:23)
It was a, I think it was a jacket from a high street brand. It was quite awhile ago, like a blazer. And I realised that some of the stitching hadn’t caught obviously when I got home, took it back and they swapped it so that obviously it’s not ideal because the product isn’t doing what it should do, but it’s clearly an oversight. And actually the customer service was brilliant. So I might talk about the customer service, but I wouldn’t say, ‘Oh because the product was rubbish…’ Because the product wasn’t rubbish. You know what I mean? There’s a, there is a difference there. So I wouldn’t ever slate people on social. But I think allowing people to follow your journey and you to talk about the benefits and positives is a really, really good thing that is more likely to attract brands to you. Because if you are using and loving their product, to me that is one of the keys.

Rhea Freeman: (18:13)
I, if I had a pound for every time in one of the accounts I admin, I see a message and sometimes they’re incredible. Like, will you sponsor me? I love those. When that’s the full message from someone who has never tagged you, never commented any of your content. Sometimes they don’t even follow you. That’s a really great one. Um, we lots of sponsor messages. Well that would be a no, but if we, if I’m contacted by somebody who is saying, I love your product, I love your brand. I use a product all the time. Um, this is a specific model I have. I’ve had it for this long and is actually giving me that information. I’ll do my best to help. I might not be able to help, I mean, I think in today’s world, full sponsorships are much rarer, but brands do want to support people that support them.

Rhea Freeman: (19:06)
So even if it’s a free product, a gift voucher, something like that, or even just, ah, that’s amazing. Thank you so much. When we’re next looking to do something, you’ll top of the list. How great is that? But the people that I am willing to do that for and that my brands are willing to do that for are people who have already put in the groundwork. People who have already been actually showing that they use the product, that they love the product. They’re the people that I want on any kind of team, any brand ambassadors team, because they’re already doing the work. So as a brand, you don’t have to think, Oh God, I’m gonna have to make sure we do the content. Oh, I’m going to give them this product, this thing I’m gonna have to chase, chase, chase, chase, chase, or even worse.

Rhea Freeman: (19:52)
I’ve no idea. I’ve no idea if they use it. I don’t even know if they’re going to do what they say because I’ve got no evidence. I’ve got nothing to say that they do tag brands, that they do show behind the scenes that they do do what they’re promising. So you need to put in the groundwork and the groundwork is using your social well. Um, so you’re the one that says, will you sponsor me. Rethink manners. Poor manners annoy the heck out of me because it’s just annoying. But using what you have, documenting it is the way, you’re going to get what you want if you want to work with brands. So yeah, brand ambassadorships are something that is quite common or for better word sponsorships in some degree. But again, if you’re looking to work with brands, you need to be doing this.

Rhea Freeman: (20:50)
And also please be really aware that you can only work with so many brands. So if you’re doing all this content, you’re putting all the social media out, you’re putting all the tags out and someone approaches you from a brand you have never heard of before, wants to work with you. I’m not saying don’t do it. I’m saying if I were you, I would ask to test a sample of the product first and see if it’s going to work for you. If you’re happy to swap something that you’ve used and love for years for it. Don’t just go, Oh yeah, yeah, free stuff. We’ll have that. It’s just not authentic or genuine. Just think hard about that. Another thing that, um, I’ve gone off on a tangent there. Sorry about that. So another thing that you can hopefully gain from using your social media, this is probably more for the professional riders.

Rhea Freeman: (21:35)
It’s potentially owners because owners are people and people use social media and you might find that your owners or potential owners hang out more on Facebook to Instagram for example. But the more you’re putting yourself out there, the more you’re showing all the behind the scenes stuff, the more that people, and also your results, how you feel about it, how the horses come on, all the stuff we’ve talked about. If you are an owner looking to place your horse with somebody, wouldn’t that be really interesting information that you’re basically getting a behind the scenes yard tour, competition tour, all of the above for as long as you want to keep an eye on them before you even have to reach out. How useful is that so you don’t have to declare an interest. You can just watch quietly and see what happens. You can just watch and see if they are your kind of people and not only can you judge this from the way they worked with their horses, but you can judge this from the way people speak, the way they engage with others, the their sense of humour, the way they treat that other owners.

Rhea Freeman: (22:41)
You can gauge all of this from someone’s social media if they’re genuine, authentic, and honest. How great is that? You don’t have to have that awkward like first date period when you rock up and you think, yeah, this isn’t going to work. How do I get out? At what point can I get someone to phone me and leave here? You don’t have any of the weird first dateness, you just, you know them already. You know what they’re like, you’ll actually find out more about them. and go to see them and speaking to them one to one, but as an owner, how good is that? So you can provide that too by just showing what you’re up to and that’s another great reason why you need social media. Other thing you might not have thought of. Obviously the brand ambassadorships and the sponsors are probably still the most obvious if you’re a rider.

Rhea Freeman: (23:28)
Obviously owners might be an extra benefit, but there are other opportunities that present themselves that you might not think of as opportunities or as possibles, but they really can be so when you start to build a really good engaged following, you can knock it up to the level where people will pay you to create content for them. And again, I’d always be careful if this aligns, but you can either with a brand or a service or even a show or event, you have the ability to either reach out to people or for them to reach out to you because you’ve already got so much good stuff there that you can use to promote yourself, collaborations. You know, you might even get to the point where you are working on your own ranges with brands.

Rhea Freeman: (24:15)
There’s so much scope that if you want to take it, and if you use social media well and properly, but you might not want to and that is fine too. You don’t have to do any of these things. And I think this is a really important point because we also choose to push, push, push, push, push. I need to have this because everyone else got it. Especially if you’re someone who’s doing this for fun as an amateur, don’t let something that you are not sure you want hurt something that you love. You might not want to be posting consistently and that’s fine if you’re not expecting anything from it. If you want to have brand ambassadorships, sponsorships and higher level things, you’re going to need to be consistent. If you don’t, you don’t. You do what you want. And this is a really, really key point here because I’ve seen so many people who are amateur horse riders by which I mean they’re not professional and they are so they get so passionate about their social media.

Rhea Freeman: (25:29)
But it’s not just a case of you putting the stuff out there. It can take huge amount of time to do your social media well because not only putting out the content but you are also responding, engaging, creating. And that can take a large amount of time. And if you have a full time job and you have a horse that you are training, fitting, keeping well it might be more than one horse. And the other bit of your, you know, the rest of your life, maybe you’ve got kids, maybe you’ve got husband, partner, whatever and you want to spend some time with them and then you’ve got social media which can be massive if you let it. It can be too much and I’m not saying it doesn’t have to be, but it can be and I think you need to have really clear goal when you start your social media, when you put the time into it of what you want to achieve from it and when you’ve got this idea in your head of what you want to achieve from it, especially if you’re an amateur, if it’s a professional, it’s slightly more obvious.

Rhea Freeman: (26:37)
You want to gain sponsorships to help you do what you do because it’s a key part of your business. If you’re amateur, you don’t always have to have earned the money within your hobby. Basically. If you’re an amateur, you don’t have to make the money in your hobby because you have a full time job that funds your hobby. If you’re a professional rider, your full time job is riding and therefore looking at revenue sources to fund that and whether that’s kit or product that you don’t have to buy is obviously a serious consideration. And if you want to nail that as a rider, a professional rider, you do need to look at your social media as a key part of your marketing. And I really believe that so, so passionately. If you are an amateur that you want to get brand ambassadorship, sponsorship opportunities and you want to grow your following, you want to grow your influence and grow your accounts.

Rhea Freeman: (27:33)
So maybe you can do more as an influencer, maybe you can knock down your full time job to part time and create other revenue opportunities from that. Then yeah, you need to take it seriously and you need to take it probably seriously as a professional rider because you’ve got more ground to make up. But if you just want to enjoy your horse and you aren’t looking for any kind of revenue product/kit to come from your social, then do what you like. Absolutely do what you like and that’s completely fine. More than fine. It’s a good idea. It’s a healthy idea. So yeah, that’s why I think riders need social media and also a few really good ideas of how you can use it and how it can not take over your life. If you’ve listened to this episode and liked it. So I’m kind of hoping you have, please take a screenshot, share it on your Instagram stories and tag me at Rhea Freeman PR.

Rhea Freeman: (28:27)
I’d love to see where you’re listening, when you’re listening, if you liked it, what your key takeaways, any of those bits would be so, so useful. I’d love to know all of that and I hope that’s really helped. As I mentioned at the start of the show, I have got a course all about, it’s called social supercharge riders, which is on my website and links through. Or it’ll be in the show notes too. So any more information about that also feel free to DM me. I’m happy to answer any questions you’ve got. So thank you so, so much for listening to this episode. All about why horse riders needs to use social media or not? No, it is. It’s mainly is. I hope we’ll catch up next week team have a great week.

Listen to the podcast about why riders need social media here

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Equine influencer Teddy The ShetlandTeddy The Shetland is a true influencer. An equine influencer no less. And he doesn’t even know it! Alice Goring, Teddy’s owner, came on the Small & Supercharged Podcast to talk all about Teddy’s rise to fame. She talks about how she got started (and how they thought they’d delete his Instagram in a month if it didn’t go well), to when she knew Teddy was going to be big, the opportunities he’s had and some of the incredible work they’ve done together.

 

All about equine influencer Teddy The Shetland with Alice Goring

If you’re horsey and, actually, even if you’re not, you might have heard about Teddy The Shetland. This pint sized blonde bombshell was originally bought as a companion for Alice’s event horses, but quickly became a star in his own right.

At Christmas time a few years ago, Alice’s cousins persuaded her to get him an Instagram account. With her sister, they thought it would be a bit of fun, and felt that they would simply delete the account after a month if it didn’t do well. But that wasn’t the case. With a huge amount of sharing both inside equestrian circles and beyond with things like Buzzfeed too, the account grew at an incredible rate – and continues to too.

With Teddy’s growing following came amazing opportunities

With this increased presence on social media came a lot of opportunities. From working with brands like Hovis and Amazon, photoshoots with Dior, film premieres, going as press to the RHS Chelsea Flower Show and a whole lot more, Teddy has had opportunities that so many human influencers would give limbs to have.

Initially, Alice and her sister weren’t sure about taking up these opportunities because they both have full time jobs, but they realised that the money he could earn from this kind of work would cover his insurance costs for the work he does with charities. And he does a huge amount. Alice talks about the work that her and Teddy do with children’s hospices and talks about one particular time on the day of the Grand National. A little girl, who was attached to a ventilator, was able to ride Teddy around the hospice in her red school blazer to many cheers. Alice describes the moment in detail… she said she had to hold back the tears. Just hearing the story made me well up.

Teddy The Shetland and Willberry Wonder Pony

Alice also talks about the Willberry Wonder Pony Charity. Alice was friends with Hannah and she still does work with Willberry Wonder Pony and Doris, who was Hannah’s Shetland Pony, to help promote the charity. Due to Alice’s work, she actually helped to set up the research side of the charity. We talk about Hannah too. She really was such a huge inspiration.

Meeting equine superstar Valegro

At Royal Windsor Horse Show this year, Teddy and Alice got the chance to meet Valegro and go on Good Morning Britain too. A late night call led to the most amazing opportunity for Teddy and Alice – and when you listen to the interview you’ll hear just how much this meant to Alice. In addition to this, Teddy has also been invited to parties (like a footballer’s child’s first birthday party), makes stand appearances and so much more.

We talk about the commercial side of it too. We talk about how people expect things for free but how Teddy and Alice have costs to cover before any profit. We talk about how influencers in other industries charge a lot more but we aren’t quite there in equestrian yet. Alice also talks about how she had to pay 3k last year as Teddy was incredibly poorly (and how his insurance would only cover him as a therapy pony or for vets fees, not both).

We finish by talking about what the future holds for Teddy and Alice; they’re going to be a very exciting duo to watch for so many reasons…

You can follow Teddy on Instagram @teddytheshetland

On Facebook /teddytheshetland

And you can email him (well, Alice!) on teddytheshetland@gmail.com

You can follow Alice on Instagram @alicegoring24

On Facebook /alicegoringeventing

Or you can find out more on her website www.alicegoringeventing.com